Monday, March 18, 2013

Grow Up Like Daddy

Maximus,

   Ever since you were born, 90% of people who see you say "oh he looks just like Ricky." Then I, as your momma, feign disappointment and jealousy and make a case for which features you have of mine. Even though I do get excited on the rare occasions that someone says you look like me, I am equally pleased when someone identifies characteristics of your daddy in you. Thats because, to me, he is the most wonderful man in the world and since I want nothing but the best for my son, I hope you grow up just like him.
   You turned 18 months old yesterday and it seems like in the past couple of months you have made the full transition from baby to little boy. This is the time that daddy has been looking forward to since we got married. Don't get me wrong- he has loved every minute with you since you were born, but he always said he couldn't wait to play with you. Now you are so fun. Let me emphasize this... SO FUN. We spend most of our evenings just watching you and laughing and playing until bedtime. Then once you are asleep we discuss over and over again how we got so blessed that you are ours. In God's perfect timing, these early years of yours have been right during the time that daddy is in school and therefore is able to be home with you three days of the week while I am at work. I think this is so good for both of you and I love hearing about what the two of you do while I am at work. I love it even more when he sends me pictures of you.
   I hope you realize at an early age just what a gift you have been given by being able to have your daddy as your role model. He is kind, selfless, humble, funny, easy-going, determined, handsome, athletic, smart and godly. He gives me a mark to aim for in my life. He is the type of person who will always sacrifice his own desires for others and never complain about anything. He is the type of person who doesn't say much but what he does say is usually wise. He is the type of person who can go from not working out in a year to running 5 miles at a fast pace just because he put his mind to it. And best of all, he is so sweet with you. He absolutely adores you. We both do, my love.
    You are already following in his footsteps. In my mind you are the most perfect kid I have ever known. You are so smart, cute hilarious, and good. The doctor saw you for your checkup today and again was blown away by how advanced your vocabulary is and how good your disposition is. You are an absolute joy to all who meet you, just like daddy.
 
I love you my little boy.

-Momma